So far the backend libraries' include paths were relative within this
repository. This means the header files could not be used at their
installed location.
This change replaces them with "<>" includes to fix that problem and adds
a new include directory so building everything at once still works.
With this change it should be easier to actually split some parts into
another repository if this one would become too big.
Add new SyncthingLauncher class which lauches Syncthing
under the hood via external SyncthingProcess or using
libsyncthing.
Note: Launching via libsyncthing is still experimental.
